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This site is absolutely brilliant! Right on target with everything a girl goes through who has a FBF. I have been in a relationship on and off with a very VIP FBF for nearly 6 years and let me assure you the OFF times were 99.9% due to his work related issues/personality “disorders” created by work issues, the giant EGO that came from all of the money he may as well have been printing on his own press, the associated Rolls Royces, Bentleys, Astons, blah blah blah that allowed him to have whatever girl he wanted at any given time and then the downfall of the empire along with everyone else in the country when the economy crashed. The beauty in that, even though he is now rebuilding JUST fine is that he learned a little something called humility. Now, as any GF to a FBF knows, “humble” and “compassion” are not 2 of the most common words in the FBFs vocab (their gag reflexes generally go off at the meer mention), but even the slightest hint of it now that he went through it all is enough to make me believe that all of the ups and downs we have been through have been worth while. Not to mention that I can still write him text messages while at Barneys demanding a new Prada bag for my upcoming bbday and feel just fine about it, so all in all we are both winners  And yes, to all the cynics on this freaking site who do not seem to get it I am a very well educated, empowered early 30s lady who makes a 6 figure income on my own and has owned my own property/condo for almost 10 years now, it is with loving eyes wide open that I accept the trials and tribulations (he literally SCREAMED at me while eating dinner at his house a few nights ago when I had the audacity to ask him what that little jingle was that he has as his cell phone ring) of being with an FBF to reap the benefits (he is the strongest, most amazingly smart man I know) and feel confident that the relationship we have built is one of true love, care, and unconditional support. But what’s the harm in having an awesome site like this to vent and feel understood by other lovely women in similar situations? Absolutely nothing! Especially since it WAS my FBF who turned me onto this site in the first place, ha!